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Small is the New Big and Antiques Can Get Us There

Bigger is not Better

When I think about decorating a space, I consider proportion. Will the décor and furniture “fit.” Rarely do I buy new. American furniture tends to be too big and aesthetically underwhelming (ever been to Ashley’s)? It’s big because it needs to occupy a Mac Mansion, in a big way. Funny thing though, the average American household has declined to 3.1 people in 1970 to 2.6, according the US Census Bureau.

Flea markets — or second hand markets in general – are more my size. They tend to suit my design aesthetic too, not only because Antiques Are Green but because the pieces are usually a better fit and more in scale with the size of the home and the people in it, so bigger is not better. Bigger is not

Bigger is not Sustainable

When the planet contained a billion people, the earth’s ecosystem could sustain that population. The sun rose and set and the seasons and the cycles of farming could feed and care for the people that needed all it could provide. Now, with four billion people, we’ve got some serious sustainability issues. The food we produce is not made in harmony with the earth. It’s is produced artificially and in mass quantities so that we can satiate an ever increasing middle class around the world that is both hungry, and hungry for something better.

Whether it’s furniture size or the size in the earth’s population, we are out of proportion with our real hunger — which may be hard to visualize – which I believe is personal satisfaction and being in harmony with our planet.

Less is Better

Take a look at this Infographic about the evolution of the car which illustrates my point. Yes, they have gotten bigger to us, but have they gotten better for us? Do they do anything better than drive, really?

According to the Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development’s (OECD) report on life satisfaction in the western industrialized nations the happiest people on earth are the Danes. They live in a tiny country where the most personal happiness and contentment is characterized by small living spaces. So how is it that Denmark tops the list with the most satisfied citizens? Perhaps it’s because of the high employment rate of 73% and a low percentage of 1.92% of employees working long hours contribute to high satisfaction levels. But I can’t help wonder, do they “get” that less is more?

Could it be that in the US of A (which failed to make the top 10) that if we decreased our yen for all things big like furniture and houses and cars, and increased our personal happiness by cutting back on a consumptive mindset we would be happier? What would it be like if we didn’t have to work so much? If we spent more time with family? Or just did what the French call being a flaneur (people watcher).

Could we steer the happiness needle to the other end of the meter, and away from the consumptive, dinosaur economy that drives it, so to speak?

Read more:

The Happiest Countries in the World – 24/7 Wall St 

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Things I Don’t Want To Know About Flea Markets

Week Two and an article I ran across in Smart Money “10 Things Flea Markets Won’t Tell You” (Grant, 2012) is vexing me. Not so smart either. As if the “old world” markets and bazaars are going to learn something about getting and spending from today’s consumer reporter. Really, can I find better prices at a yard sale, really? I feel relieved her advice will prevent me from getting fleeced at the fleas, really.

It’s not that I have anything against lists or tip sheets. Heck, I created a Flea Market Check List here for you TSI-ers, but the author writes like there’s a science to the Fleas. Which there probably is, but I don’t want to know about it. Doing the Fleas is a process. Like getting older and wiser. You can’t really rush it. It’s just not authentic. You can act as if you know how to haggle, but it has to be instinctive, in order to be a success, you know?

Still, this scientific understanding of things is fine, really. I do it myself. We all do it. It’s in our genes. Especially the  the ones  rooted in legacy we inherited from Greek civilization. Geographically, Greece is made up of hundreds of little island bits. Cultural anthropologists will tell you that the countries (like the Unites States) with a history marked by European immigration or settlements, have an “atomized” thought process, like those islands. We tend to demonstrate a profound curiosity to break things down, and to discover the “true” nature of a thing, like a flea market for example. Although we inherited this cultural trait honestly, I still don’t like the idea pulling back the curtain on the magic of the Flea market experience.

I rather like the fact that the Fleas are messy, unpredictable (and did I say disorganized?).They’re brining with art, antiques, and objects that can be unfamiliar, but that ultimately teach me something new about the place it originated, about artistry and design. Perhaps that’s just the gypsy in my soul naturally rebelling against grown up rules like being on time and organized. I like that they are none of that. They remind me of living in Europe, where I was comfortable without those boundaries, and every day was a new experience.

When I wander through the aisles, I am practically in a meditative state. Don’t know how I got to this stall, or why I am handling this fabric, before you know it, I can hear myself saying ohverynicehowmuch?

Yep, open-air markets and the Fleas have been around for thousands of years, since the dawn of civilization, and I can’t help but think that we really do know, instinctively, how to shop and bargain and haggle just like we know how to parent, even if it’s for the first time.

I also think that the sudden trending of Flea market mentality has not so much to do with thrift as it does with Facebook. Does anyone know where I am going with this idea?

Does anyone know where I am going with this idea? Post your comments on this page and the first one to “get where I’m going with it” gets a free Flea Market Fanatics tote (a $25 value!) because you gotta have something to put your loot in, right?

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