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The Dime Colorado

It’s always good to see who’s talking about you on their blog or website and what kinds of things they’re saying. Tag Sell It has had the privilege of being mentioned in both local and national press and last week a new mention caught our eye. The site is called simply “The Dime” and they’re all about cents and sensibility. They published a terrific article on garage sale tips; “One Man’s Trash: Making the Most of a Garage Sale” be sure to check it out, it’s a great read! They mention tagsellit.com is the site to check to locate sales in your neck of the woods!

About The Dime: “The Dime is a blog about money for people who aren’t just about money. It’s about frugal, but not cheap, people and their lives. Whether you’re a teacher buying school supplies on your own dime or a crew member paving a million-dollar highway, this is the place for you. You can bet your bottom dollar.”

Be sure to check out their articles and Authors, they have a quite the lineup of money-saving characters!

The Site is powered by Colorado PERA (Public Employees Retirement Association)

Thanks for the mention! -The Team @ Tagsellit.com

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Porter and Hollister Hovey’s Flea-Market Chic

The sisters create interior designs that combine pieces of personal history with thrift-store finds (like stuffed birds) and a smattering of modern electronics

Special thanks to Megan Buerger at the Wall Street Journal for allowing us to repost this awesome story!

In the shared Brooklyn loft of sisters Porter and Hollister Hovey, stuffed birds mingle comfortably with eclectic vintage furniture. The unusual décor displays the combined styles of Hollister, 34, a leather-loving tomboy with a taste for Louis Vuitton luggage and antique backgammon sets; and Porter, 30, a photographer who loves exotic stuffed birds, chinoiserie vases and pearls.

“It’s Palm Beach on crack,” Ms. Hollister jokes, describing Ms. Porter’s style, “but mixing and matching in an eclectic way is our game.”

A framed Hermès scarf that belonged to their mother hangs above Porter and Hollister Hovey’s fireplace. -Dorothy Hong for The Wall Street Journal

The sisters run the up-and-coming décor company Hovey Design, creating a distinctive aesthetic by combining keepsakes with thrift-store antiques and a smattering of modern electronics. Since founding the firm in late 2011, the Hoveys have decorated penthouses in Williamsburg, developed a wallpaper and an adhesive wall mural for retailer Anthropologie and published a book entitled “Heirloom Modern,” which was released last month. On May 23, décor e-retailer One King’s Lane will release a “tastemaker tag sale” with about 100 of the Hoveys’ favorite items up for grabs.

On Hollister’s blog, which she started in 2007, the sisters share old family photos, renovation tips and snapshots of thrift-shopping adventures from the Berkshires to Tokyo. Known in design circles for its vintage style and flea-market savvy, the blog receives about 2,000 hits per day.

It’s easy for manipulated authenticity, particularly one built around nostalgia, to feel contrived. “The key is to be yourself,” Hollister says. “It sounds simple, but trust us, it’s not. You have to be honest about your story. If you try to be someone you’re not, everyone who enters your home will notice. Instead, they should take a deep breath and say, ‘This is so you.’ ”

To do so, the sisters say clients must embrace their oddities and abandon perfectionism. The Hoveys’ design service, which begins with a consultation that costs about $3,500 per room, comes with a lengthy, personal questionnaire. (They typically charge between $3,500 to $5,500 to conceptualize each room, plus an additional 20% charge on top of the price of any items they source.) In the questionnaire, clients are asked about their favorite childhood vacation, the best advice their parents ever gave them and the secret career they wish they had. Those answers then become a treasure map for details to highlight in the décor.

Last fall, Anthropologie commissioned the pair to design a wall mural called ‘Photographed Antiquities’ ($248). The print is based on a photograph of the Hoveys’ living room. -Anthropologie

“Our process is very personal,” Porter says. “Sometimes it feels like therapy, unearthing childhood memories and showcasing them in a sophisticated way.”

“The memories aren’t always happy or pretty, but that’s life,” Hollister adds. “It doesn’t make your home a sad place, it fills it with life. It’s what makes it interesting.”

The Hoveys’ 1,400-square-foot Williamsburg apartment is brimming with quirky antiques, animal prints and a mishmash of design genres—a lot like their childhood home in Kansas City, Kan. The two credit their treasure-hunting abilities to their mother, who was a fan of flea markets and eccentric fashion and filled their home with trinkets from around the world.

“She believed eclecticism was fabulous and always encouraged us to be individuals,” Hollister says. “She potty-trained me by bribing me with designer underwear.”

Their mother died in 2002, and the women have turned her favorite Hermès scarf into a piece of framed wall art. Next to it sits an old family desk flanked by a pair of 1970s Art-Deco chrome chairs and a large portrait of a hunter. The space also includes a life-size papier-mâché leopard, plastic tusks made from melted toys and a trio of taxidermied birds including a pheasant, swan and scarlet ibis. None of this is supposed to go together, but that’s the point. The sisters rely on traditional design rules such as color balancing and shape variation, and then bend them to give the space personality.

Among the heirlooms is a collection of stuffed birds. ‘They’re elegant and exotic,’ Hollister says. ‘Every woman should have at least one.’ Dorothy Hong for The Wall Street Journal

Hollister and Porter Hovey took different paths out of Kansas. Hollister worked as a reporter before joining a health-care public-relations firm, where she still works, and Porter worked at an art gallery in Manhattan before dabbling in music public relations and, now, real estate.

Their first client, Peter Jenkins, was one of Porter’s bosses who hired them to decorate his penthouse loft apartment in Williamsburg. It was so well-received that it quickly led to more clients; the apartment he bought for $2.16 million in 2011 was listed for $3.25 million and is now under contract.

In their book, the sisters offer personal examples of translating a life story into décor. The book draws on a mixture of family and friends for inspiration; subjects include their aunt and grandmother, along with friends like New York hotelier Sean MacPherson, of the Bowery and Jane hotels.

“We often feel like we’ve been branded as these vintage puritans, but it’s not that simple,” Hollister says.”Taste is more complicated than that. In the book, Sean talks about how the Navajo intentionally weave mistakes into their rugs as a way of celebrating imperfection, and I thought, ‘That’s it.’ It’s the antigeneric. It’s about breaking out of traditional design boxes in order to build your own.”

Special thanks to Megan Buerger at the Wall Street Journal for allowing us to repost this awesome story!

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Don’t be “that guy”

As many of you may know, I own a well known art gallery, Fascination St. Fine Art, in Denver, Colorado. The story I’d like to share is from an experience I had dealing with a buyer at the gallery. I want to share this story because I think it demonstrates a really important situation that all buyers should be aware of; especially when you’re out there trying to be the Donald Trump of wheelers and dealers.

About two weeks ago, this person, we’ll call him Steve, called one of my staff members inquiring about a few artworks by one of our artists, Charles Fazzino. We spent a great deal of time explaining options and combinations and after over a week of negotiating, we finally reached an agreement. Steve paid for the artwork and all appeared to be fine.

The next day, however, Steve called us claiming that he had received a better offer from another gallery. Essentially he wanted us to compete for the sale even though he had already paid. Negotiating between galleries does happen in the art world, but it needs to be done during the beginning stages of an art deal, not after it’s completed. In addition to this mistake, it turned out that Steve was actually lying about the other offer he had received. He was trying to play our gallery off of the other - hoping that one of us would actually beat his “made up” price offer. I quickly realized his game, and after all of his dirty dealing, I decided that it wasn’t worth the hassle of his dishonesty. I told him I would cancel his deal so he could take the supposedly lower offer he had received.

This is one of the artworks that Steve was trying to wheel and deal.

After I told him I would cancel his deal, Steve called back to say he wanted to give me another chance to offer him a lower price. It turns out that the other gallery wasn’t willing to match my offer, but as I said, at this point I wasn’t interested in working with him anymore. Now Steve has two galleries that dislike him as a client, and instead of getting a good deal on artwork, he’s paying for his greed with a more expensive deal through the other gallery.

 

In the end, there are a number of things you can learn from Steve’s mistakes:

1. It’s never a good deal unless you make the deal happen. What I mean by that is, when you walk away from a deal over a few dollars, you wind up the loser. There are too many occasions when people feel that they have to get the absolute best deal ever or else they won’t do it. Even though they could still make a great deal of money off an item, they weren’t willing to buy unless they felt as though they had practically stolen the item from the seller.

2. When you’re conducting a deal with someone, keep in mind that you’re starting a relationship with that person. If you’re doing the buying, there’s no reason to not make the seller feel good about the deal. You want to respect them as a seller because he could have other items that you’re looking for. He could also be a future resource for information on things you collect. If you’re able to complete a deal in which both parties are happy, it will benefit both of you in the moment and in the future.

3. Steve did not actually read the invoice or credit card receipt that was sent to him from the gallery. If he had, he would know that the gallery does not offer cash refunds after 48 hours. We do this to protect ourselves in instances just like this one. We had to order the artwork Steve wanted, and if we aren’t able to cancel the order in time, we are still on the hook for buying the artwork whether Steve wants it or not. So now Steve is legally on the hook. Typically we would offer him a gallery credit for the return; however, I don’t actually want to deal with Steve again, so I’m going to give him a refund, minus the costs of running his credit card. While he could be on the hook for a lot more, he’s still going to be losing money in the end.

4. When you’re doing a deal, whether at a garage sale, estate sale, gallery or antique store – know it is a small world, and people talk. Trying to dishonestly pit other establishments against each other is never a good idea. You never know who knows whom, like in this story. We know almost all of the galleries carrying Fazzino artwork, and we know how to get in touch with them to find out the truth of the situation. As I said earlier, when you’re negotiating on an item that you really want, it is always possible for everyone to feel like they’ve won. Don’t be a Steve and ruin the deal, but instead, be you, and complete an honest and beneficial deal.

 

Good luck, and happy hunting!

-Aaron

To learn more about Aaron LaPedis, visit www.thegaragesalemillionaire.com or contact him at thegaragesalemillionaire@gmail.com.

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Thanks for choosing me…..to host a party I can’t afford.

Life is full of joyous occasions, and along with those joyous occasions we like to have a joyous celebrations. As we get older and more friends and family get married, have babies, birthdays and all of the good things that can happen, there is a good chance you will find yourself the key host/hostess for such an event. And while you are probably overjoyed to have been chosen to plan a soiree, your bank account can really cramp your plans. I’ve hosted many bridal showers, baby showers, surprise birthday parties, and numerous other gatherings. Throughout trial and error I’ve figured out some great ways to save money and still make a special event to remember. Here are some ways that you can stretch your dollar and actually enjoy your own party!

Pick a Date

I can’t save you money on this one, you’re on your own.

Location, Location, Location

Ideally you’ll be able to host the get together in your own home or the home of someone also associated with the party. If you book a space with a hotel or restaurant there will be minimum food and beverage costs, gratuities etc. that can really add up. A great alternative is to use some of the places that your taxes already help pay for. Wait, what? Unbeknownst to most people, your own city is full of venues you can rent for a fraction of the cost. This can vary from parks, community buildings, recreation centers and how many people you will need to host. Simply google your city governments website and there should be an option for facilities rentals. You will be eligible for a non-profit rate as long as you aren’t seeking to raise any funds during the event. For example; I am hosting my sister’s baby shower at a beautiful community center in Fort Collins, Co for $30/hr and they provide tables, chairs and cleanup. We also have access to a kitchen and can provide all of our own food. Simply contact the venue that you wish to rent and they will be happy to provide you with more information and book a date for your party. A small deposit will be required at the time of booking.

An Outdoor Affair

If you procure a park space or even a backyard, an outdoor party can be a fun and beautiful location. Then again, seating can be a issue with a lack of picnic tables, and the cost of bringing in extra seating. Why not do a picnic party? Simply go to your local thrift store, purchase some fun printed blankets, take them to the laundromat and wash them and spread them around, planning 4-5 per blanket. In the center, have an individual food spread for each blanket. This prevents people from having to continually rise and sit to get what they need. Plates, silverware, everything. It’s a one stop shop. Drinks can be brought around and offered to each guest and refilled as needed or they may also be offered at a combined drinks/dessert table. Make sure you arrange the blankets in close proximity to one another to keep things social. Also at your local thrift store you can find apple crates, baskets, cheap dishware and any other little touches that would enhance the picnic. Mother nature will do most of the decorating for you but paper lanterns, wildflowers, or other theme appropriate items can be nice as well. Timing can affect type of food people are expecting to be served, so opt for an early afternoon start time that will go well with light appetizers. Think cheese, crackers, fresh fruit, finger sandwiches, iced tea etc…here are some pictures of how you might set it up.

 

 

Plastic silverware with a napkin and a paper doily wrapped around it and secured with twine or ribbon is a functional, yet personal touch.

**Any guests that are unable to sit on the ground can easily be accommodated with a chair and TV stand that someone is bound to already have.**

 

The Incredible Indoors

When your event will be inside, you don’t need to worry about overhauling the space. Small touches make the biggest impact. Tablecloths can be purchased at any party store for around $2 each and in a wide variety of colors. Use place mats to create surfaces to set flowers, decor, food etc. Using different colors and patterns creates visual interest and is very inexpensive. Centerpieces or table decor? Simply type into Google what you have pictured in your mind and more than likely there will be a tutorial on how to make it. There are videos on arranging flowers, creating luminaries, banners, paper lanterns etc. Marthastewart.com is a personal favorite of mine. The woman literally knows how to make everything….and it’s usually on the cheap. Here are some of my favorite (super easy) party touches.

 Limes? Flowers? You got this.

Regular Christmas lights and some paper? Who knew?

 

Just some twine, clothes pins, fabric flowers and a onsie. Go ahead and have shower guests write well wishes and words of wisdom to the Mom to-be on colored notecards and pin them up. This makes a great memento for the guest of honor.

 

Food, Dude.

Rally the troops! Once again, there will be people who are also closely associated with the party that wouldn’t mind helping out by bringing a little something to contribute, and eat! Everyone has a “go-to” that they can whip up to create an eclectic mix of appetizers that are sure to leave everyone full and happy. If you’d rather shoulder the food portion yourself, be practical about what you serve. Veggie trays, meat and cheese trays, tea sandwiches (make a regular sandwich and use cute cookie cutters to make four small sandwiches out of each one), pasta salad, cupcakes, snack mix, hummus, etc can all be purchased ready-made and will keep you from having to cook on top of everything else you’ll have going on. Sam’s club is a great way to get all of these items in bulk for a big discount. If your party will be serving alcohol, don’t be shy about letting it be a BYOB, but make sure you have some water and tea or soda available for those who don’t care to imbibe. Just set it up and enjoy!

Fruit + water = yum!

A little something for everyone.

Party Favors

Do ‘em, don’t do ‘em…It’s really up to you. They aren’t really expected anymore and making a donation to a charity close to the guest of honors heart in the name of the guests at the party serves just as well as anything that will just collect dust in someones closet.

This should have you all set to host a very special, not to mention cost friendly gathering that will be one to remember. Set a play list on your ipod, get all dressed up and have a GREAT time!!

“It’s not where you are, but who you’re with.”  -Dave Matthews Band

XOXO

Kelly

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Thrift Style Fashion Competition

Here is the game for those interested:

Before you go out for the night, possibly after a few drinks, make a competition for best outfit for under $20, then roll out to the bars. The people at the bars dictate who wins. You may wear your own underwear!

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Resale or Retail?

The past five years have brought a tremendous new perspective to the resale shopping world. Frugal living has become a popular trend among many households and with the ever changing global environment, the “reduce, reuse, recycle” mantra has become more popular than ever. NARTS, (The Association of Resale Professionals) probably has the best perspective on resale vs. retail industry statistics and trends today. The resale industry offeres quality second hand items with fabulous savings.

We decided we would highlight some of the cool fun facts about the current industry statistics and trends of the resale industry that NARTS has published.

  • The resale industry is healthy and is one of the fastest growing segments of retail
  • The industry has experienced a 7% growth rate per year in the last two years (reflected by the estimated number of new resale stores opening each year, less the businesses that close)
  • NARTS provides invaluable continuing education to members that enhances the success of business owners and the industry as a whole
  • NARTS reports that there are over 25,000 resale, consignment and not-for-profit resale shops across the United States
  • Resale is a multi-billion dollar a year industry
  • Goodwill Industries alone generated $2.69 billion in retail sales from more than 2,500 Not For Profit resale stores across America in 2010
  • Buffalo Exchange began with a 450 sq. ft. shop in 1974, has grown to 43 stores plus 2 franchises in fifteen states, they employ more than 700 people and generated annual revenues of $64.4 million in 2010
  • Crossroads Trading Co., based in Berkeley, CA, rang up over $20 million in sales last year at its 27 stores with plans to add additional locations

Resale shopping attracts consumers of all economic backgrounds and levels and continues to blossom thanks to value-conscious consumers. “According to America’s Research Group, a consumer research firm, about 16 – 18% of Americans will shop at a thrift store during a given year. For consignment/resale shops, it’s about 12 – 15%. To keep these figures in perspective, consider that during the same time frame; 11.4% of Americans shop in factory outlet malls, 19.6% in apparel stores and 21.3% in major department stores.”

“With an increasing awareness of the importance of reducing pointless waste, we are progressing from a disposable society to a recycling society—a change that has enormous market potential for the resale industry as a whole. After all, “Resale is the ultimate in recycling!”

Source: NARTS

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Thrift Style Living

Today we’re excited to introduce and feature LaCheryl Cillie, founder of Thrift Style Living. Over the last thirteen years of collecting antiques, LaCheryl has developed an enormous passion for auctions and estate sales. “There is an excitement that bubbles from deep within for such events,” she says. Here’s an insight into her business and passions, along with some great tips for everyone!

Remember the first apartment, or your first house? You found a great place, but you could not afford a bedroom or living room furniture, and you did not know where to go or who to talk with to get what you wanted at a price you could afford. Maybe you just simply love to dress but find the ever rising cost of quality clothing and accessories not so affordable in a tough economy – that was me and the start of it all!

How do I continue to get the best in a tough economy without giving up quality, or becoming buried in a mountain of debit? Thrift Style Living was born to offer solutions and answers in a tough economy! This “how to be a savvy shopper website” seeks to arm the average consumer with knowledge so they know how to recognize and shop for the best, whether it is furniture, general household items, designer clothing, jewelry or antiques and collectibles.
I have been doing estate sales, and have been a licensed auctioneer for over a decade.
I have also written a book about understanding estate sales, auctions, and second hand shopping.

My 5 Pieces of  Advice for People Making a Conscience Lifestyle Change:

  1. Be open minded about shopping all of the different second hand venues. Flea markets, auctions, estate sales, garage sales, pawn shops, thrift stores, consignment stores, online stores and websites – A diamond in the rough could be anywhere at any time!
  2. Educate your eyes – Be sure to visit traditional retail settings, or places which will aid you in the recognition and understanding the value of quality items. Also check out decorating or trade magazines , newsletters and price guides.
  3. Do not buy junk – Search for quality! If you look long enough you can find what you are looking for. Just do not give up, be patient. It is better to buy high quality used items than poorly made new things.
  4. Always buy what you love – But it is always helpful to think in terms of possible investment or resale of an an item, either locally or online.
  5. The money saved or made as a result of thrifting can be used to fund other other areas of your life.

Favorite Shopping Venues

  • My favorite second hand shopping venues are thrift stores and estate sales!

All Time Favorite Thrift Store Find

  • Assorted Victorian Sterling Silver Goblets, Flatware, Saucers bought for 25 cents to 3.88 each
  • Coco Chanel Vest for 4.99, Prada Jacket $19.00, Donald Pliner Italian Leather Shoes $3.88. Christian Dior Chapeau for $0.59.

Final Comments
Thrift is not a dirty word and “The Best Can Cost Less!” - Quality Counts!

Be sure to check out LaCheryl’s website: www.thriftstyleliving.com

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Flea Market Philosophy: Etsy Is Frenchy* (or is it Greek?**)

In the world of flea markets where things are not always what they seem, I like to think that my training as a global readiness consultant comes in handy as a flea market fanatic . I rely on something called the 5D Cultural GPS that helps me demonstrate what makes the other guy tick. I end up connecting (some very unlikely) dots that reveal much more than “the find” at the f l e a s. The flaneur (that’s French for “people watcher”) in me ends up doing a kind of freakanomics of “why” people do what they do based on where they live. Nope, I don’t cure cancer, but isn’t the clash of civilizations the cause of conflict, from racism to war? Call me crazy, but I think that intercultural insights are something everyone could all use during our encounters with everyday culture, at the fleas, or at work, right?

So stay with me on this, the other day, I was cleaning out my cache of pics for a line of framed book covers I make called Literary Masterpieces (yes, on my Etsy shop) and I came across a picture I saved from Bazaar Magazine that was written last year by Nan Talese recalling her relationship with Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis.
As I re-read it, I realized why I saved it. It didn’t just explain Jackie’s Frenchness, it prompted me to explain the French national character when Americans seemed to be perturbed with them (remember Freedom Fries?). American foreign policy with France during the Bush years (when we were, regretfully, bush) was strained because they were against our hasty rush to war with Iraq. They wanted more time to let allow UN weapons inspector Hans Blix actually find the weapons of mass destruction. Turns out the French were right. There were none. More like weapons of mass distraction.

So why are we so at odds with the nation that gave us the statue of Liberty and very principles that make us American like liberte, egalite, and fraternite? If we’d taken their advice, we could have avoided all that death and destruction in Iraq. But in our “need for speed” and the time-is-money mindset, it cost us lives and world respect. I can’t help wonder, if we’d been more “French” in our approach– by thinking and taking our time — maybe we could have saved more lives.

Re-reading that article again, I realized how French the new Green economy is that prefers to upcycle and reclaim over dispose and pollute. Digital flea markets like Etsy are at the forefront of this French retail legacy; we’re flea market fanatics going Green, Slow, Global. As Nan Talese thinks back on her friendship with Jackie, what struck me was what an Etsy state of mind Jackie had, which is well, kind of un-American (in a good way) and here’s why:
• Relationships preferred over deals and transactions
• Beauty trumps practicality
• Slow over fast
• Manners, above all

Relationships (or people are more important than business)
Nan recalled Jackie told the restaurant not to bring the bill to the table, a subtle gesture I admired and adopted. I still do it to this day. Taking money out, means she puts people first (Suze Orman supports this) and thinks the relationship with the author is more important than the business dealings. If you think this is antiquated or charming, a whopping eighty five percent of the world conducts business this way. Deeda Blair rhapsodized in Vanity Fair about the exquisite atmosphere of restaurants and you felt that there were delicious conversations taking place at every table. Now you go into a place and everything looks transactional. Bingo.

Aesthetics over Practicality
I always admired how hard she worked and how devoted she was to her authors. She was also able to balance publishing books that she knew had an audience with books that were for her own reading pleasure. I remember once when we were both on a break, getting coffee in the little Doubleday kitchen, and I congratulated her on having just signed Ruth Prawer Jhabvala. She said, “Well, every once in a while, you have to do something for the soul.”
Etsy-ians aim to empower people to change the way the global economy works. We see a world in which very-very small businesses have much-much more sway in shaping the economy, local living economies are thriving everywhere, and people value authorship and provenance as much as price and convenience. We are bringing heart to commerce and making the world more fair, more sustainable, and more fun. Sounds the Green Rebellion of the 60’s, which was characterized by the love of nature (“flower children”) and it’s verdantly ingenuous ideals. And so far, I have personally experienced the feeling of a safe, supported community place.

Love of The Absurd (or why the French think Jerry Lewis is funny)
But Jackie never expected to receive any special treatment, and she would line up just like the rest of us when seeking a few words with the publisher. Though in the outside world she was always known as Mrs. Kennedy or Mrs. Onassis, in the office she was just Jackie. She walked to work through Central Park every morning wearing slacks and a T-shirt or a sweater. She sat at a plain old gray metal desk. One day on the elevator, someone approached her and said, “Oh, you’re Jacqueline Onassis, aren’t you?” She said, “No, I’m not!”
I love the predominantly whimsical nature of so many of the Etsy items, yet they are also imminently useful and well made.

Manners
She never wanted to eclipse her writers, and her first concern was raising her children well . . . so we were very much on the same wavelength as far as bringing up children with manners and having serious intent with what they would do with their lives.
This is a very French mindset. Children should be seen and not heard. I parent this way (and like the French, I don’t apologize for it) because if your kids think they are the center of the universe, then they don’t think you have an emotional life of your own. Consequently, they, being naturally outsized egomaniacs, you have to offset that struggle by standing your ground to stabilize that tendency.
Now I don’t think that Etsy-ians are ego maniacs, but I do think that as far as digital flea markets go, they’ve eclipsed EBay, bien sur!

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Notes
*http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Etsy: While much speculation surrounds the meaning behind the name Etsy, one story is Etsy got its name because Robert Kalin “wanted a nonsense word because I wanted to build the brand from scratch. I was watching Fellini’s 8 ½ and writing down what I was hearing. In Italian, you say ‘etsi’ a lot. It means ‘oh, yes.’ And in Latin, it means ‘and if.’ ”
** The word “etsy” in Greek means “this way” or “like this” so I think it means things made “like this” the (handmade) way.

Sources

http://geert-hofstede.com/countries.html

www.CulturalGPS.com

http://digital.libraries.ou.edu/sooner/articles/p4-7,28-32_1967v40n2_OCR.pdf

http://www.harpersbazaar.com/magazine/feature-articles/nan-talese-remembers-jackie-kennedy-0911

http://www.vanityfair.com/society/2012/02/ladies-who-lunched-201202

http://www.etsy.com/about?ref=ft_about

http://nymag.com/news/intelligencer/topic/bringing-up-bebe-2012-1/

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Things I Don’t Want To Know About Flea Markets

Week Two and an article I ran across in Smart Money “10 Things Flea Markets Won’t Tell You” (Grant, 2012) is vexing me. Not so smart either. As if the “old world” markets and bazaars are going to learn something about getting and spending from today’s consumer reporter. Really, can I find better prices at a yard sale, really? I feel relieved her advice will prevent me from getting fleeced at the fleas, really.

It’s not that I have anything against lists or tip sheets. Heck, I created a Flea Market Check List here for you TSI-ers, but the author writes like there’s a science to the Fleas. Which there probably is, but I don’t want to know about it. Doing the Fleas is a process. Like getting older and wiser. You can’t really rush it. It’s just not authentic. You can act as if you know how to haggle, but it has to be instinctive, in order to be a success, you know?

Still, this scientific understanding of things is fine, really. I do it myself. We all do it. It’s in our genes. Especially the  the ones  rooted in legacy we inherited from Greek civilization. Geographically, Greece is made up of hundreds of little island bits. Cultural anthropologists will tell you that the countries (like the Unites States) with a history marked by European immigration or settlements, have an “atomized” thought process, like those islands. We tend to demonstrate a profound curiosity to break things down, and to discover the “true” nature of a thing, like a flea market for example. Although we inherited this cultural trait honestly, I still don’t like the idea pulling back the curtain on the magic of the Flea market experience.

I rather like the fact that the Fleas are messy, unpredictable (and did I say disorganized?).They’re brining with art, antiques, and objects that can be unfamiliar, but that ultimately teach me something new about the place it originated, about artistry and design. Perhaps that’s just the gypsy in my soul naturally rebelling against grown up rules like being on time and organized. I like that they are none of that. They remind me of living in Europe, where I was comfortable without those boundaries, and every day was a new experience.

When I wander through the aisles, I am practically in a meditative state. Don’t know how I got to this stall, or why I am handling this fabric, before you know it, I can hear myself saying ohverynicehowmuch?

Yep, open-air markets and the Fleas have been around for thousands of years, since the dawn of civilization, and I can’t help but think that we really do know, instinctively, how to shop and bargain and haggle just like we know how to parent, even if it’s for the first time.

I also think that the sudden trending of Flea market mentality has not so much to do with thrift as it does with Facebook. Does anyone know where I am going with this idea?

Does anyone know where I am going with this idea? Post your comments on this page and the first one to “get where I’m going with it” gets a free Flea Market Fanatics tote (a $25 value!) because you gotta have something to put your loot in, right?

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